From health and sickness,
Rich and poor,
Till death do us part…
Every living creation in this blue globe is made in paired. Yes are we. Even though try to denied it but its something that been written in the early sand of time. It’s a life searching adventure to find that person that made for you. That one girl that is destined custom made for you. That girl, who god took a piece of your bone and put in her to complete her creation as a human being. Will you ever know her, will you ever can find her and be with her? That the risk which ever men or women should take. Life is all about taking risk and taking chances. Cause to be paired is to be complete. And to be paired is to have continuity of our race. That’s the circle of our life…
MARRIAGE…
Is an oath, is an agreement of being partnership with somebody that you loved with. Is not something lay on bassist of feeling in love but believe truly inside that one person knows you and accept the very inch of you. She doesn’t have t have nice curve, model look a like face or paper of high education.
HUSBAND & WIFE…
It’s a combination that’s a family stay stick together upon helping each other to survive and to face any difficulty that life are meant for. Don’t miss understood its commitment of slavery where it never once are destined to be like that. A wife is a companion, a piece of missing pieces in a guy. Yes, men a head of the pack and leader of the family. But I don’t think he should be bossing around and make his partner as his maid. Well that’s the concept that I see being applied in these recent years. I don’t like there a line for responsibility for men and women in a family. They should not be one. There aren’t any manual or books saying men should go to work and search money to feed the family and women should be the slave to keep the house together. Why should be one because I believe and I would loved to things are share together the burden and responsibility. Yes men are responsible to take care of the family make sure everything are enough. But helping hand from his partner wont kills it. If by doing that makes our family having a better life why not. Maybe in a sense I love to be these modern men where he can support his family by his own. I would love that but risking my own family cause my own ego that would be stupid. You should know your own shoes that you wear. If it’s strong enough to stand alone or does it need support or help. Don’t me shy or ashamed because in the end you in this together. Cause life not everything would turn out like the way we wanted to but its more about accepting what is given to you, solve it, face it and do the best of what it may. It may sound scary but sorry to say life is not a fairy tale. Maybe if you born with silver spoon you may have a chance to have that 50% of that fairytale life. But if you in those common citizen which daily life is all about struggling and continuity of fighting for a better life, then you should just stick with reality that are meant for you.
ARE YOU READY?
Age and money? That’s where we all had been mistaken. To be ready is not about how old are you and how stable financially are you in life. Money can’t buy happiness but money does buy food on your plate. I admit that. But money is the element of desire which never have its full stop. Will you ever know you are ready? Yes you will when both parties understand what may they confront in the future and both party take reasonability of their own task. The basic responsibility where the men being a men and protect his family in every mean and women to support, comfort her companion in hard times. People say you don’t have to wealthy to have your own family but enough in every aspect. We all dream of having a good life and better for our own generation before marriage, but that stop not stop for you to having one. There a say in Malay saying “rezeki anak” where insyallah things will get prosperous and bloom once a family had build. You know you are ready when you willing to do anything, what ever it is to unsure the task is given to you may fulfill to the nearest objective- being reasonability. To sweat even blood just to know your loves one are in good hands. Together and forever be does sound easy but it could be if you believe in each other and standstill through dusk till dawn.
So ask yourself, are you willing to be with that person from health and sickness,
Rich and poor,
Till death do us part…..
